If your child talks to you about anything that is worrying them, always listen carefully and take them seriously. Try to build an open and trusting relationship so they know they can come to you with their concerns.

If your child tells you they have been abused, or describes what you think may be abuse, they may be feeling very anxious or embarrassed. So it is important that you do not react in a way that adds to their distress. Here are some points to remember:

• Try to react calmly
• Listen very carefully to what your child tells you
• Make clear that you believe what your child says
• Tell your child that they have done the right thing by telling you
• Tell them that they are not to blame
• It is very important that you take action to end the abuse

Another important way you can help protect your child is by teaching them about personal safety.